Wellbeing Concerns

Anger Regulation

Expand the space between trigger and response, protecting the people who matter most.

Anger is a healthy, common and understandable emotional response. In military environments, anger is often linked to protection, action, and decisiveness, qualities that are functional and necessary in high-pressure settings. However, when the expression of anger begins to affect the quality or safety of relationships, work efficacy, or daily life, additional support is recommended. Anger may present as:

How anger may present

  • A short fuse

    experiencing sudden, intense surges of anger over minor frustrations such as traffic, delays, or everyday interpersonal irritations.

  • Heightened irritability

    feeling constantly on edge or easily annoyed by a civilian world that may seem disorganised, inefficient, or lacking discipline.

  • A slow, persistent burn

    carrying resentment or unresolved frustration toward the ADF, DVA, or past experiences, which then spills into personal interactions.

  • Regret and guilt

    the emotional aftermath that follows an outburst, particularly when it impacts partners, children, or people you care about.

Our approach

Veteran-informed recovery, built around you.

These reactions often sit on top of deeper layers of stress, anxiety, sadness, moral injury, trauma, or exhaustion. As such, anger becomes the visible surface emotion. Our clinicians support you by:

  • Expanding the space between trigger and response, using practical, evidence-based strategies to help you regain control in the moment.
  • Addressing the underlying contributors, whether they relate to PTSD, moral injury, chronic stress, transition challenges, or accumulated workplace pressures.
  • Strengthening communication and relationship skills, helping you protect the people who matter most while expressing your needs in ways that align with your values.
Our team

Our Wellbeing Clinicians

Dr Allana Weir
Dr Allana Weir
Head of Wellbeing | Clinical Psychologist (Clinical Lead, Brisbane)
Renee De Beer
Renee De Beer
Psychologist (Clinical Lead, Canberra)
Andrea Planamente
Andrea Planamente
Psychologist (Clinical Lead, Adelaide)
Amanda Raxworthy
Amanda Raxworthy
Mental Health Social Worker (Canberra)
Melissa Jackson
Melissa Jackson
Psychologist (Adelaide)
Carlo Tropiano
Carlo Tropiano
Psychologist (Adelaide)
FAQs

Frequently asked questions

Connect with AVHS

Ready to start your journey?

Reach out and our empathetic, veteran-informed team will be in touch to help you take the next step, with no out-of-pocket cost for eligible veterans.